Things I know at 30 I wish I knew at 20
A 30th birthday is a peculiar creature. For some, it’s a day of genuine celebration; for others, a time of wistful reflection. As mine fast … Read more
Love
Late expectations
A female friend recently tweeted the following: ‘Work colleague has just come back fuming from a first date where they went dutch. Should the man … Read more
A (not so) suitable boy
When do you know that the person you are with is not ‘the one’? And, more importantly, what do you do about it? I think … Read more
Imperfect love
Today I cancelled two meetings and one talk, refused a commission and fell behind on several others. This stuff is pretty important to me – … Read more
Under a woman’s skin
I bought The Writing’s on the Wall, I went to see Destiny’s Child at Wembley in 2001 and I marvelled at Beyoncé’s talent and ability. … Read more
Good catch
Meeting a partner’s colleagues is rarely a great experience. Everyone knows each other and can share conversation, and you end up being the one stuck … Read more
All the fair men
As many of you know, I’m getting married soon and am therefore officially “off the market”. A friend recently commented: “It’s great you’ve got a … Read more
A suitable boy
Now that I can comment on arranged marriage with some authority, I thought it was time I sat down and did so. I debated whether … Read more